I have been collecting alimony for 12 years. I also have been defending alimony debtors for the same amount of time. So I have been on both sides of the issue and I know the opinion and arguments of both sides. Therefore, alimony, to be honest, I have already withdrawn. All that I will continue to write is my experience and knowledge, no theory. I warn you about this right away, because there will certainly be those who disagree with me, and who will say that I do not understand anything about this.
Generally, visitation by the birth parents is difficult unless the process was an open adoption as opposed to a closed one. Visitation may still depend on the adoptive parents. These situations require communication and a relationship between all parties before the child ever enters the picture.
